Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

I am 23, shes 17 turning 18 soon. I had a crush on her for about a month. Yes, I asked her out and all. But, she was in the process of breaking up w/ her b/f. I asked agian that I wanted to be more than friends, hang out and get to know each other. But she said (weeks later) that shes most likely gonna be w/ her b/f agian... she lied. The guy broke up w/ her and weeks later (agian) she got w/ another guy! I was like, what? she lied when I told her I liked her? But, then again (about a half month later) I think she broke up with the 2nd guy; *I think* I saw her arguing w/ him a while ago. And I read her myspace bulliton, she loves him but says in those survey bullitons, "Do you love your b/f? She said, Were boyfriends (I think.) I was stunned. And I haven't seen her new b/f since! Or better, her with him. Why can't we bond? And do you think our age is really important? I say love is unconditional %26amp; shes almost 18. I assume that she has a tiny crush, but not commited, dunno.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

i am a girl...who can read guys like a book (no offence i have ALL guy friends) look man girls can be bitches...she prob. didnt want to hurt you and she THOUGHT she was doing the right thing when in reality...shes just skrewing with your fellings more and being a total hypocritical ***** :) dont worry a.) not all girls r like that and b.) there are alot of other girls and if your not ready to accept that you still have a chance i guess. But is she really worth it to you now? If she were to go out with you after this dude then wouldnt that just make you backup...its up to you on how you look at it...thats just mi opinion...no age really isnt that importent...

Sorry im 14 my spelling is horrible ! :) Hope this helped

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

I think if she felt something, you would know by now. If she said no twice and moved onto another guy who wasn't you, then I don't think that she's interested. I think you have to move on, find someone who returns your feelings without question.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

okay ethier this girl does not like you and trying to show you by her going out with other guy or she like you just not ready to commit to you and go out with u here my advice gave her some space.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

unfortunatly i think you're gonna have to let her go. because other than that you're going to just keep waiting and waiting. there's other girls out there who will go out w/ you. and you never know maybe you'll fall for one of them.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

I think you should just move an. This girl doesn't seem to be interested in you right now.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

I think you have to face facts. She does not want to go out with you. Sorry but the truth hurts.Find some one who is worthy of your feelings.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

well to be honest it doesnt sound as if shes that interested, we arent that complexed, if we know a guy likes us and we like them, then we'll go for it. i think you should just move on before you get hurt further. since shes just split up with her boyfriend, she is most likely only on the rebound anyway.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

hmmmm.... it she was meant to be yours she will be even if she doesn't want to accept it and it the same the other way around. Just be yourself and not worry about these.. Keep your friendship with her and act normal around her. She might and might not realize how much you like or "love her". All the best.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

Yes there's a difference between being in love and love, atleast thats what I come to realize when my boyfriend left me because he said he loves me so much but he's not in love with me. Some people would say there's a problem with the age difference, but personally I don't think there is anything wrong with it, but then again it depends on the situation. Me and my ex were 7 years apart, but then again we were both legal. If she does give you a shot, play it safe till she turns 18.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

Sorry to say man but she isn't interested in you. If you have any doubts ask her and tell her to be honest with you. If she starts saying stuff like " you deserve so much better then me" or " your a good friend but you should find someone who can make you happy". Those are some of the many examples which will tell you that she is not interested in you. Hope i helped and i hope you find out soon.

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

age isn't the issue....it's you. I hate to have to tell you this...but..she's just not into you. You mind as well back off and if she wants you down the line she will come to you. Just try to continue to be her good friend and she realizes one day that you've been the good one there all along. Sorry man...

Females, is there a difference between love and the idea of being in love?

If she lied and hasn't made any real attempt to hang out with you, then she's probably not interested. I'm sorry.