Thursday, December 24, 2009

I need help ?

Yea so im a 14 year old boy and theres this girl that likes me and she knows that i know . I also like this girl and she knows it , we usually talk on myspace and we go to the same school , i always say whats up but when i try to talk to her my mind goes completly blank ,I get a tiny bit nervous but my main problem is that i dont know what to talk to her about . I need some confendential help and some conversation ideas so that we can go out, I need tips please!!!



I need help ?

Don't try to talk to her like a girlfriend (or a potential girlfriend) talk to her like you talk to your male Friends.



I know it seems hard to do but it shows her the real you, not someone you are trying to be to impress her and you will both have a lot more fun together without any stress about what you are going to talk about.



I need help ?

write her a letter first to kinda break the ice!



I need help ?

Just make small talk about anthing..Try to find out about something she likes..Like a band, rapper etc..and talk about that.



I need help ?

well you got thro the hardest part and that is lettin a girl know that you like her and findin out she likes you also! so at least you weren't rejected!!



now in regards to conversatoin starters, get to know her! ask her simple questions like background info, what her parents do, all that bs. then you can move onto what she likes to do, like hobbie, school subjects that ya'll enjoy, sports. she'll prolly start talking about shopping or something. this is were it can get boring but its crucial to pay attention and at least act interested. i mean you really might be interested but if your not then act!. ask her open ended question (questions that need more than a yes or no to answer) that will make her converse.



once you get on a topic that both of ya'll are comfortable then its all down hill form there!!



just find something to talk about that interests her and that you can hold a conversatoin with. and dued you might be nervous but who knows,. she prolly is too!! to ya'll can feed off eachoteher and get a feel for where the conversation is goin...



good luck and have fun bro



I need help ?

Tell her you want to play a game and then start asking her questions like, what is your favorite color, food, music, movies etc. Tell her yours, good way to get to know each other using an easy method.

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